Genital Herpes Infection (HSV)

Genital Herpes Infection (HSV)

I am devastated and depressed with my diagnosis of genital herpes, should I feel that way?
It is really a stigma for people when they hear the diagnosis of genital herpes. However, genital herpes is caused from a very small virus and it is sexually transmitted. Genital herpes has been quoted as being the “boxer short infection” because it can occur in any areas covered by the boxer shorts.
How can I possibly have contracted this infection, I am always so careful?
Even if you always use condoms, the virus is so tiny, it can pass through a small break in your skin, or the moist membranes in your vagina, or your anal area. You can even get the viral from oral sex if your partner has a cold sore.
My partner swears he has never had an outbreak!
Your partner may, or may not be aware that he has herpes. Millions of people have the disease, and do not seek medical help for treatment. It is very important to take the medication to prevent the outbreak, and the viral shedding from your skin, even without an outbreak, which can infect other people.
Why do I feel like I have the flu?
The symptoms of the herpes virus infection usually appear about 2-10 days after you are infected with the virus. You get swollen glands, fever, chills, muscle aches, fatigue, and sometimes, nausea. The genital sores are very painful, and ooze a yellowish fluid before crusting over. It is often very painful to urinate, because of the stinging and burning. The first bout of the herpes infection is usually the worst, and subsequent infections are less severe.
Do I need to take the medication for the rest of my life?
Most people do get fewer outbreaks over time, but initially, you can take suppressive therapy for up to 1 year to prevent frequent outbreaks.  You need to make your health care provider aware that you have herpes, if you get pregnant. Your provider will give you medication to take for the last month of your pregnancy, to prevent the herpes infection from spreading to your baby at the time of delivery.
How can I feel better about this disease?
Just be aware that millions of people have herpes and live a very normal life. You need to take the medication to prevent outbreaks and continue to use condoms to prevent any other STD’s. It is a good idea to eat a healthy diet, get plenty of rest, and avoid stress and to think positive so allowing yourself and your immune system to help control this disease.
For more information please visit www.cdc.gov/std